Across North East Lincolnshire, many children and young people quietly take on roles far beyond their years. They support parents, help calm siblings, manage routines and play a vital part in holding their families together when life becomes challenging.
On Wednesday 11 March, communities across the United Kingdom will mark Young Carers Action Day, an annual event led by Carers Trust to raise awareness of young carers and advocate for better recognition and support.
In North East Lincolnshire, the heart of this day lies with the incredible young people themselves. More than 250 children and young people are registered as young carers in our borough, and several have chosen to share their stories to raise awareness this Young Carers Action Day.
Amelia, 14 – “I am the support person in the house.”
Amelia has grown up in a busy and often chaotic household where several of her siblings have additional needs. From the age of nine, she has supported her mum by calming meltdowns, helping with daily routines and making sure her younger siblings feel safe and included.
Although her days may appear normal from the outside, Amelia is constantly stepping in to keep things running smoothly while also managing her own anxiety. She wishes more people understood that young carers exist not for recognition, but for understanding.
Bray, 16 – “It is not a chore. It is helping someone you love.”
For Bray, caring has become a natural part of life. He supports his mum, who lives with severe sight loss, mobility issues and long term health conditions. His routine includes managing the family dogs, helping with shopping, preparing meals, assisting with medication and offering emotional support.
Caring has at times affected Bray’s social life and ability to work, but his bond with his mum is incredibly strong. Young carers sessions have provided him with friendship, stability and community. As he prepares for adulthood and hopes to go to university, he carries the additional worry of how his mum will cope without him, a consideration most sixteen year olds never have to face.
Wayne, 13 – “I am proud to be a young carer.”
Wayne supports his parents, who both live with back injuries, by helping with household jobs and looking after his younger siblings in their lively and bustling home. He did not realise he was a young carer until a school questionnaire showed that his responsibilities were not typical for someone his age.
Wayne wants people to understand that being a young carer is not always difficult. Some days are busier than others, but he is proud of the role he plays. Hearing his parents say how proud they are of him remains one of his favourite memories. Coming to young carers groups gives him space, enjoyment and people who truly relate to his life.
Zach, 13 – “Sometimes you just need your own space.”
Zach helps care for his younger brother, who has ADHD and autism. His role is less about physical tasks and more about using patience, careful communication and emotional understanding to help keep his brother calm and safe.
Life at home can be unpredictable, and as someone who once shared a room with his brother, Zach knows how challenging early morning wake ups and disrupted nights can be. Young carers groups and the new Horizon Youth Zone give him essential time to breathe, make friends and enjoy being a teenager.
Zach’s message to others is to always make a little time for yourself, whether that is colouring, watching television, reading or simply having a quiet moment to unwind.
Alongside these inspirational stories, Grimsby will be lit up in yellow tonight from Victoria Street down to the Minster. This small but meaningful gesture is a heartfelt message of thanks to the young people of North East Lincolnshire who give so much of themselves every day.
Councillor Margaret Cracknell, portfolio holder for Children and Education, said:
“I want to offer my sincere thanks to all young carers in North East Lincolnshire. Your dedication, compassion and the support you give your families every day is truly inspiring.
“I hope today, as you should every day, feel appreciated and valued. Your contribution makes our community stronger, and we are incredibly proud of each and every one of you.”
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